22 November 2023
EDMOND, Okla. (KFOR) – An administrator at a skilled nursing facility in the Oklahoma City area was shocked to find a terrified and hungry 9-year-old girl hiding behind a recliner in a resident’s room. Savanah Patt knew what she had to do next.
“She looked at me, and she wouldn’t talk at all. And the resident, I was like, ‘Um, who is this?’ And she said, ‘Oh, that’s my granddaughter,'” Patt said. “She smelled terrible, she was very dirty, she didn’t have shoes.”
Nine-year-old Renlee had been hiding in her grandma’s room for a week after a neighbor dropped her off at the facility after finding the tiny girl living alone with her older brother for weeks.
Their home was a hoarded trailer in southeast Oklahoma City that they shared with “a ton of cats and dogs,” little Renlee said. She also remembers holes in the floor, filth and feces.
For Renlee, food was scarce — and so were her parents. Patt said they are lifelong addicts who would force Renlee to panhandle with them on street corners for drug money.
“They would take the food stamps and trade them for drugs,” Patt said. “They hoisted her into dumpsters, and they would go dumpster diving.”
Renlee had a case of lice that prevented her from returning to school until they were gone. But with no one to help her get rid of them, she never returned to school that year — until Patt stepped in.
“I fell in love with her,” said Patt, who was thrilled at the chance to adopt Renlee.
Ten years have passed, and Renlee can now say she has lived with her adopted family longer than she did with her birth family.
Now 19, Renlee’s life has been transformed by the gift of adoption.
“I don’t know where I’d be without my mom, I don’t,” she said with tears in her eyes. “I was born with meth and heroin and pretty much every drug you can think of in my system as a baby.”
But Renlee has broken the chains of generational addiction with the help of her adoptive mother.
“It’s amazing!” Renlee smiled. “To just feel loved and safe.”
Finding Renlee all those years ago was not the only shock Patt experienced.
A couple of years after adopting her, Patt received a phone call asking if she also wanted Renlee’s older sister, then 13, whom Renlee hardly knew.
Cheyanne had been tossed around between relatives and acquaintances her whole life.
“She had been left at a Circle K gas station in Yukon, Oklahoma,” Patt said, adding that the woman Cheyanne was living with no longer wanted her. “Cheyanne didn’t know I was coming, and I pull up. She was sitting outside, and she looks at me. I roll down the window, and she said, ‘What are you doing here?’ I said, ‘You want to live with me?’ She said, ‘You want me?’ And I said, ‘Yeah, girl.'”
Patt became a mom of two after also adopting Cheyanne.
“People are like, ‘Oh, you saved them.’ No, no friends. They saved me because having them made me want to be better,” Patt said.
Cheyanne and Renlee became the first in their family to graduate high school. Renlee is now on track to getting a college nursing degree. She hopes to pour love over her patients just like her mom did for her 10 years earlier.
“Her finding me in a room, and now I’m going to be kind of working with people like that,” Renlee said.
She also wants to transform another child’s life through adoption.
“Whether they’re clean, dirty, whatever. They deserve love too. I mean, they deserve to be happy and have a home and be safe and not have to worry about where they’re going to get their next meal,” she said.
Patt added, “The attachment and bond that you get that you’re choosing to love and they’re choosing to love is so beautiful.”
Renlee’s older brother was taken in by another family. She hopes to someday reunite with him.
Currently, more than 390,000 children and teens across the country are in foster care, hoping to find a permanent family.
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